How to avoid being obsessed with a boy

How to avoid being obsessed with a boy

 

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Although you genuinely like a guy, you shouldn't let your relationship control your life. If you prefer to keep your distance, here you will find ways to not be obsessed with a boy.

 

 

 

Steps

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Don't tell your friends about your crush. If you tell them about this boy, they will encourage the influence he has on you. For example, they'll nudge you when he's around or spread new gossip about him. If you want to forget about a boy , it's best to tell your classmates not to push you towards him all the time.

 

 

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Show forgiveness. Forgive yourself for falling in love with him and forgive him for not loving you.

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Don't follow him everywhere. If you do that, he'll think you're a bad guy or a stalker.

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Imagine spending your life with him. Just ask yourself if it's really worth it.

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Make friends with other boys. You have to do this, not or make him jealous, but in order to meet new people.

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Take up a hobby. Find an activity that will occupy your thoughts. You have a life outside of your relationship with this boy, and for that, explore it! Explore the world around you.

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Maintain your point of view. It does not represent the end or the beginning of the world.

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Imagine the ideal boy according to you. Make a list of the perfect man and imagine your first meeting with your spouse.

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Act as a go-between and schedule your friends' dates.

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Take note of everything. Get a journal and write down your obsession so you can forget about it.

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Tell someone. You should try to talk about the situation with a silent friend or a responsible adult.

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Don't take rejection badly. If you ask him out and he rejects you, remember that if he had agreed, you'll feel worse when he breaks up with you rather than just being rejected.

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Step away from the computer. Although it is safe to check your Facebook or Myspace profile, it will only increase the obsession and turn into a habit. Don't get used to following him on the Internet, as this can cause more problems than at the start. Healthy relationships aren't about social media or the computer. Rather, they begin with direct interactions.

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Don't think too much about him. Not thinking about him may seem difficult, but it helps. Your obsession lingers whenever you think of him, and instead of doing that think of other things and if you can't do it then think of his flaws.

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Try to breathe calmly. Do this when you keep blushing. Tell yourself his jokes aren't funny, and go over every detail about him. Does he have bad breath? Are his shoes disgusting? Focus on all the negatives.

Advice

Don't overdo your texting and calling her, as this will scare her off and make you feel needy and insecure.

Be happy to be yourself and hang out with people who are used to making you happy. If he was the one who made you happy, tell your friends about it. Be positive, because after all he may not be the one for you.

When you're not talking, try not to make eye contact with him.

Avoid meeting him. If you know it will be in a certain place or in a hallway, you better not take it by those places.

Discuss with your classmates. The fact of exchanging with them will allow you to forget the boy.

If any of the previously mentioned techniques haven't worked, try to politely avoid the boy and tell a friend that you're no longer obsessed with him. Eventually, you won't.

Instead, be obsessed with an attractive famous man. It will be healthier than obsessing over a guy you see every day.

It's not his fault he doesn't like you. Don't take it out on him.

Stop talking too much about him to your friends and avoid examining what he does when you see him.

Don't watch movies or listen to songs that remind you of him. It can be music and romantic movies.

 

 

Warnings

Rejection is hard to accept, but know that it's not the end of the world.

Although most people think having a new crush will help , it really isn't. It will only give you the opportunity to love someone else and stop having feelings again in the next few months. No one really wants that, do they?

Don't be like those girls who are obsessed with boys all the time, because no man likes to date such a girl. This kind of behavior is repulsive. What is pleasant is this girl who lives her life and does not hang out with men. That doesn't mean you won't be upset, hurt or turned on, but what does matter is that you don't focus your whole life on this boy!