How to avoid an argument with your best friend
Nothing is worse than arguing with your best friend! You might have a fight with a friend, or find yourself between two friends who are fighting. If you hate these kinds of dramas, follow these steps to avoid them.
Steps
1
When you argue with a friend, see the situation from their perspective. Did you do anything to make him angry? Is he injured? If yes, why ?
2
Write a letter or note saying you're sorry and that you can't stand arguing with him, even if you think your friend should apologize first. He or she will probably think the same!
3
Put the note in his locker, or somewhere you know your friend will find it, without other people having access to it. You could also hand this note to him.
4
Try sending an email or even a text message to your friend, if the letter doesn't work.
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Realize that this friend may need time to calm down before he can forgive you. Arguments sometimes hurt people.
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If you don't fully understand the situation, talk to other friends. You could even talk to your mother about it, she will always be there to advise and support you! Remember that she too was your age.
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Be aware that this kind of situation is very common between two friends who spend a lot of time together. Try to hang out with other friends.
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Realize that if that friend can't forgive you, they probably don't belong in your life.
Advice
If you have to work on a class project together, be careful not to bring up the subject of the argument.
Ask yourself why you argued in the first place.
If you're working on a project together, pretend you've never had a fight and move on. You don't want to get a bad grade because of an argument.
Don't let your other friends say bad things about your best friend.
Your best friend might just need some space. Give him time and don't force him to talk about it.
If you meet his gaze, smile shyly at him, so he understands that you don't like to be angry with him.
Don't get too involved in arguments.
If you have problems with a friend, don't confide in another friend, go see a teacher or educational counselor to solve the problem.
If you're angry with your friend, try hanging out with other people. Your friend will regret not being with you, having a good time.
Never start a fight.
Never ask a friend to pass on your apology to your best friend.
Warnings
Don't say bad things about your best friend to your other friends.
Don't just ignore him/her: he/she will just ignore you back, and then you might never talk to each other again.
Don't ask him/her if he/she is angry more than twice. It would be annoying and if he/she wasn't angry, you might just piss them off.
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